Finding Freedom From Fixtures

After recently taking a workshop with Marylee Fairbanks (http://maryleefairbanks.com/) I have decided to begin my own "24 Things" challenge (http://maryleefairbanks.com/24-things/). The rules are simple: each day for 24 days you let go of something that has been cluttering up your house, something that no longer serves you, objects that will be better suited at a yard sale, donation box, or in a trash barrel. During the 24 day release, one should only purchase necessities-- food, medical care, etc. All other material desires should be added to an ongoing list. If you are able to remember the items on your list at the end of the 24 days, then you are free to purchase them, otherwise they are likely to have been unimportant. According to Marylee, "The clutter in our house reflects the clutter in our hearts." Are we clinging to mementos of past relationships? Unwanted gifts that we were too polite to turn away? Clothes that haven't fit for years? Objects that no longer reflect who we are currently in this ever-changing body and mind of ours? Are the things we surround ourselves with keeping us rooted in the past, preventing us from blossoming into the future? In order to invite abundance into our lives, we must eliminate the unnecessary clutter that surrounds us.

Although Marylee recommends four cycles, corresponding to the four seasons, of 24 Things each year, the timing of her most recent workshop and the significance of this period in my own life could not have been better. I will be beginning my solitary 24 Things today, April 29th exactly one year after my (ex) husband told me he was moving out. In exactly 24 days I will turn 28 years old. I cannot think of a better way to mark the end of a year of transformation and to usher in another year of abundance, love, and gratitude for this life that constantly challenges and inspires me.

"One good thing to remember when clearing out is this: If you have an object that makes the past feel more important than the future then you should let it go. The past is gone. Your present is all that need be nourished." ~Marylee Fairbanks

Tuesday, May 28, 2013

Day 30: Plastic Containers

When I was shopping for household items before moving out with my husband, I was hoping to find a nice set of ceramic canisters to hold flour, sugar, and coffee. I couldn't find anything that seemed worth the expense and instead settled on these simple plastic containers.

Once in Georgia, I was thankful to have the sealed containers to keep out the cockroaches that frequented our kitchen. Three inches, fat, dark brown with wriggling antennas used to find their way, they showed up everywhere despite our best efforts to eradicate them. At first, I'd run into another room and hope they'd just find a hole to crawl into somewhere. Then we bought a Swiffer that we used solely for killing bugs. I'd reach it out as far as I could hold the green handle steady and slam it down. I'd leave the dead roach under the cloth top for my husband to clean when he came home from work. As with anything that becomes habitual, I grew accustomed to the killing and looked forward to seeing them sprint up the walls so I could reach for the Swiffer and charge like a cartoon character breaking down a castle door. Their bodies would explode leaving behind spots of dark brown with a distinct acrid stench. I became skilled at catching their filmy wings on the spindles of the Swiffer pad. The carcass would dangle from the corner as I lifted it toward the trash barrel. Sometimes a leg would get left behind.

For Christmas our first year in Georgia, my mother-in-law bought us a set of canisters patterned with raised white lattice and bubbly purple grapes. Just before she sent them my husband and I had had a conversation about how the Irish wear their heritage in the form of shamrocks and leprechauns, but the Italians didn't have a defining symbol. He suggested meatballs or grapes. I always wondered if they conspired together to send the grape adorned canisters as a slight to my ethnicity. Regardless, they looked much better than the plastic containers lining our counter space. I held onto these thinking I'd find a second use for them. They even made the move back to Massachusetts and got shoved into the back of a cabinet in my kitchen. It's been about five years since I've used them; I think it's safe to say the only way they will be repurposed is in someone else's home.

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